Playboy founder who sold and lived the dream of polygamous bachelorhood
One evening in 1967, Hugh Hefner, who has died aged 91, appeared on a TV special broadcast from the Playboy Mansions library. Puffing on his customary pipe, and flanked by Harvard theologian Harvey Cox and conservative editor William F Buckley, the billionaire porn magazine magnate and American mens titillator-in-chief argued that the religious basis for morality was obsolete.
If the US was to fulfil its manifest destiny and its citizens were to genuinely enjoy life, it needed to be liberated sexually. This, he said, was what Playboy Enterprises, of which he was the CEO and visionary founder, was patriotically supplying. In this, arguably, Hefner was fulfilling his mothers wish that he become a missionary. True, his work involved more pool parties, voluptuous women pillow-fighting and wearisome boasts about sexual prowess (I have slept with thousands of women, and they all still like me, he told Esquire magazine in 2002) than previous missionaries found necessary, but he always imagined himself to be a proselytiser for hedonistic anti-puritanism.
In his foreword to James R Petersens The Century of Sex: Playboys History of the Sexual Revolution, 1900-1999, he wrote: Sex is the primary motivating factor in the course of human history, and in the 20th century it has emerged from the taboos and controversy that have surrounded it throughout the ages to claim its rightful place in society. Others saw his impact on humanity flourishing somewhat differently. The feminist writer Gloria Steinem, who went undercover as a Playboy Bunny in 1963 to write an expos of working conditions, said of her experience: I learned what its like to be hung on a meat hook.
Whatever Hefners missionary pretensions, he certainly had business acumen. In 1953 he founded what would become a multibillion-dollar industry with a few nude photos of Marilyn Monroe. The first issue of Playboy sold 50,000 copies nationwide. When, in 1963, he was arrested finally for selling obscene literature (after publication of an issue featuring nude shots of Jayne Mansfield), the jury was unable to reach a verdict.
His initial success fulfilled an adolescent fantasy. At high school he had written an essay criticising the US for avoiding frank discussions about sex, and in his college newspaper he had hailed a study written by Alfred Kinsey called Sexual Behaviour in the Human Male (aka the Kinsey Report, 1948), which shocked Americans for frankly discussing such issues as sadomasochism, homosexuality and the frequency of marital sex. By publishing a magazine with a pair of breasts on its cover, Hefner started a revolution. The magazine reflected hip, urban dissatisfaction with the stodgy conformism of the Eisenhower era, wrote Steven Watts in the biography Mr Playboy: Hugh Hefner and the American Dream.
According to Chris Colin of Salon.com: America was seeing the advent of the urban single male who, lest his subversive departure from domestic norms suggest homosexuality, was now enjoying new photos of nude women every month. That bachelor was seduced not just by nude women but Playboys post-austerity aura of sophistication. Not all of Playboys demographic had grotto hot tubs, nor could they be reasonably expected to be pawed hourly by scantily dressed Playmates as their favourite magazines publisher boasted he was, but they could aspire. Hefner became a fantasy figure, a lucky guy who, unlike his readers, was probably having sex right now, possibly with four Playboy Bunnies on a revolving bed. His readers dreamed not just of emulating Hef sexually, but of the whole Playboy lifestyle, one premised on cashmere sweaters, good pipes, fancy cocktails, essays by Norman Mailer and crucially no balls and chains or bawling kids. The conservative group Concerned Women for America claimed Playboy belittled marriage. Naomi Wolf wrote: A lot of men stay unmarried decade after decade because they bought the Hugh Hefner line that polygamist bachelorhood is ideal, and they lead largely empty lives.
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This irrepressible swinger and/or corrupter was born in Chicago, Illinois. He was raised by Grace and Glenn Hefner in what he later recalled as a repressed midwestern Methodist home. His fathers lineage was impeccably puritan: he was directly descended from the Plymouth governor William Bradford. Grace, whom the adult Hugh would describe as running an unimpeachably puritan household, instructed him and his friends on the facts of reproduction from an illustrated book. Hefner later complained she had only taught him about sexual biology, not its emotional aspects. But Grace had thereby done more than most of his friends parents dared to improve her childs sexual education.
The primal scene of his adolescence came when his drums-playing girlfriend Betty Conklin invited someone else to a hay ride, after a perhaps steamy summer during which she and Hugh had jitterbugged together. Stung by rejection, he reinvented himself as Hef, becoming, as he wrote in 1942, a Sinatra-like guy with loud flannel shirts and cords in the way of garb, and jive in the way of music A very original guy, he has his own style of jiving and slang expressions He calls everyone slug or fiend. Improbably, the makeover worked: classmates at Steinmetz high school voted Hef most likely to succeed.
A decade later, though, success still eluded him. One bitter evening he stood on a bridge overlooking the Chicago river aged 26 and contemplated suicide to escape an unsatisfying marriage to Mildred Williams, whom he had wed in 1949 and a job that hardly fulfilled him. After a stint in the army and graduating with a BA in psychology from the University of Illinois, he had worked as a copywriter for Esquire. He quit in order to set up his own magazine, provisionally called Stag. Hefner took out a bank loan and raised $8,000 from 45 investors including $1,000 from his mother. Not because she believed in the venture, he told one interviewer. But because she believed in her son. Each issue featured nude photographs and a centrefold poster of the playmate of the month. But Playboy was not or not only what Tom Wolfe called a one-hand magazine. Hefner commissioned Lenny Bruce, John Updike and Jack Kerouac to write for him. Alex Haleys Autobiography of Malcolm X was born from his interview with the black leader in Playboy.
His marriage to Mildred, with whom he had two children, limped through a decade in which his career blossomed. Theirs became a proto-open marriage when she allowed him to sleep with other women. Mildred did so because she felt guilt over having an affair while he was away in the army and hoped that would preserve their marriage. They divorced in 1959. Hefs swinging then began in earnest. He claimed to be involved with maybe 11 out of 12 months worth of Playmates during the 60s and 70s. He also acknowledged that he experimented in bisexuality. His Playboy Mansion in Holmby Hills, Los Angeles, became a byword for sybaritic excess. He worked from his bed, often wearing silk pyjamas, happy to be, as he frequently was, distracted from running a global porn business by female employees.
The training course was at your own expense, recalled Steinem of the Playboy Bunny induction process. It was horrible. There was nothing fun about it. High heels and costume so tight it would give a man a cleavage were exhausting and demoralising, she reported. The experience helped make Steinem a feminist: In the sense that were all identified too much by our outsides instead of our insides and are mostly in underpaid service jobs, I realised were all Bunnies.
Hefner, though, considered himself a proto-feminist. In the 1950s and 60s, there were still states that outlawed birth control, so I started funding court cases to challenge that. At the same time, I helped sponsor the lower-court cases that eventually led to Roe v Wade. We were the amicus curiae [a friend of the court who volunteers information] in Roe v Wade [the 1973 US supreme court decision affirming a womans right to choose abortion]. I was a feminist before there was such a thing as feminism. Thats a part of history very few people know. His feminism, if thats what it was, stemmed from Hefners anti-puritanism. Women, he said, were the major beneficiary of the sexual revolution. It permitted them to be natural sexual beings, as men are. Thats where feminism should have been all along. Unfortunately, within feminism, there has been a puritan, prohibitionist element that is antisexual. Playboy is the antidote to puritanism.
That antidote to puritanism faced increasing competition from the 60s onwards. Magazines including Penthouse and Hustler battled for market share with Playboy. These were the years of the pubic wars, in which rival porn magazines vied for how much skin and pubic hair they could get away with showing on their covers. Hefner, posturing as ever as putative sophisticate, declined to stoop to conquer in this battle.
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In 1985 he suffered a minor stroke. His daughter Christie began to run the Playboy empire. In 1988 eight of his former lovers filed a $35m lawsuit against Hefner for that most Californian and thus costly of legal neologisims, palimony. The suit sought punitive damages to dissuade him from maintaining the long-enjoyed practice of seducing teenaged girls, supporting them for a few years and then discarding them. Hefner told the press: Im the silliest possible target for a palimony suit, because Im the most confirmed bachelor of the 20th century.
In 1989, this confirmed bachelor married for the second time, wedding the playmate of the year, Kimberley Conrad. The couple had two sons, necessitating the transformation of the Playboy Mansion into a family-friendly home. After Hefner and Conrad separated in 1998, she moved into a house next door. They divorced in 2010. During the couples separation, the Playboy Mansion and Hefner reverted to type. He kept a wide range of Playmates and became a devotee of Viagra. The self-styled sex revolutionary was becoming a joke rather than a threat to American values. He joined the reality TV bandwagon in 2005 with the E! channel show The Girls Next Door, which chronicled the lives of three young women at the Playboy Mansion.
In 2011 his planned wedding to Crystal Harris initially fell apart when his fiancee realised that I wasnt the only woman in Hefs life. She may have had a point. If he suffered after Crystals rejection, there were compensations; there always were for the oldest swinger in porn. He had once said: I wake up every day and go to bed every night knowing Im the luckiest guy on the fucking planet. They reconciled and married in 2012.
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figcaption class=”caption” caption–img caption caption–img” itemprop=”description”> Hugh Hefner and Crystal Harris at The Playboy Mansion. Photograph: Charley Gallay/Getty Images
At least half the planets population might have been excused for feeling less lucky. When he reopened a Playboy club in London in June 2011, 30 years after the original venue closed, one protester, Kat Banyard, the founder of UK Feminista, told reporters: When it comes to todays pornography industry, all roads lead back to Playboy.
However the brand had become tired, and by 2015 circulation of the magazine had dropped to 800,000. The same year the company made the decision to stop publishing nude photographs because such images were pass in the internet age, but they returned in 2017. Last year, Hefner passed creative control of Playboy to his son Cooper.
Hefner is survived by Crystal, by his children from his first marriage, Christie and David, and by those from his second, Marston and Cooper.
Hugh Hefner, publisher and businessman, born 9 April 1926; died 27 September 2017